What is important to you when it comes to finding a church?
I know it is different for everyone. Some
people want a modern, contemporary church.
Others seek something more traditional.
I think for everyone, they are looking for a church that makes them feel
comfortable and welcome and that aligns with their basic beliefs, which among
different denominations (and even churches of the same denomination) can vary
greatly. For me, it is all about the
mission work. That is what I need in a
church. I need to see what good works
they are doing in the community.
Almost three years we have searched for a church in
Washington, although I have to admit, sometimes we searched harder than others.
Also, I have to admit that I have had a
hard time of letting go of my church at home, St. Luke United Methodist in
Columbus. It is where all three of my children have been Baptized, where one of
my dearest friends is also my minister, where I worked in the nursery as a
teenager and where Dr. Brady led me through my own Affirmation of Faith at
around my 8th month of pregnancy with Lila. I’ll never forget him telling me after the
service that after he had me kneeling down at the front of the church, he
thought that maybe he shouldn’t have made me kneel. I was HUGE!!! Then he grinned and said, “But then I thought
there were a few doctors in the congregation if we needed them.” However, those
attachments weren’t even the primary reason that I compared all other churches
to St. Luke; it was the amazing spirit of giving that was a part of that church
family. There were so many opportunities
to get involved in helping others, whether it be at December First Saturday, Samaritan
Fund, the food pantry or mission trips. Now, they have even further expanded their
missions to include a relationship with an orphanage, Naomi’s Village, in
Africa and the support of MercyMed, a non-profit medical clinic in
Columbus. (http://www.stlukeum.com/#/outreach-and-mission/local-outreach
).
During our search for churches here, we have visited a
variety of denominations and types of churches, from huge, contemporary mega
churches to smaller, local churches.
However, every time we visited, I was left feeling like Cuba Gooding,
Jr. in Jerry Maguire where he is yelling “Show me the money.” However, I was yelling, “Show me the
missions.” We just weren’t finding what
we needed. So, we determined we would just keep looking. We added it to our
nightly prayers with our children. “Dear
God, please lead us to a church were we need to be, where there is a spirit of
giving, where we can help do your good works.”
Luckily, God did hear our prayers. A friend of mine from
high school just recently moved up here and is an associate pastor at a Methodist
Church in a nearby town. It is a bit of
a drive, but I felt like maybe it was a sign that we should visit. The first time we went, we felt welcomed,
engaged and immediately got a glimpse of some of the church’s mission
work. The next Sunday we attended, it
was the stewardship sermon and man, did we get to hear about what they were
doing in the community and given an opportunity to get involved in a ministry
that we both feel so strongly about, helping the homeless in our
community. YES!!!
Of course, you know that saying “Be careful what you ask
(pray) for.” I have had to giggle about
that several times lately. At Protestant
Women of the Chapel, yesterday, our group program was on mission work. Much of our morning was spent studying
Matthew 25. Two of the parables, “The
Parable of the Talents” and “The Parable of the Sheep and Goats” (http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+25),
really spoke to me. These parables
remind us how important it is to share our gifts with others as well as take
care of those that are in need. Then, this morning, in Lila and my daily
devotion, “Mommy & Me, 100 Daily Devos for Moms and Their Little Girls” the
topic was sharing. Our bible verses today included: The one
who has two shirts must share with someone who has none, and the one who has
food must do the same. –Luke 3:11. If
a brother or sister is without clothes and lacks daily food, and one of you
says to them, “Go in peace, keep warm, and eat well,” but you don’t give them what
the body needs, what good is it? James 2:15-16. Today’s prayer was, “Dear Lord, let us find ways to help other
people. Jesus served others; we can too. We can share our possessions and our
prayers. And, we can share kind words
with our family and friends, today and every day. Amen.”
I’ve always been told to listen closely to God’s whispers,
but in the past few days, I am reminded that sometimes he yells. Today, I feel
like he is yelling my own words back to me, “Show me the missions.” My challenge to myself is to make sure I am
doing God’s good works, helping those in need and sharing my talents, as well
as teaching my children to do the same. My prayer is that God will lead me to
where I can do this best.

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